Can Love at First Sight Happen?

 

Love at first sight is the phenomenon of having intense feelings for someone the second you meet them.  Rather than slowly falling in love over time, you feel like you love the person from your very first encounter. Some describe this feeling as an instant connection, a deep attraction, a sensation of “butterflies in their stomach,” or a belief that they’ve met the person that they’re destined to be with forever. 

Many people believe love at first sight is possible, but are these intense first feelings real? And what does it mean if you don’t experience this intense rush of feelings from the get-go?

A study published in the Indian Journal of Endocrinology and Metabolism suggests that love at first sight is actually an intense attraction at first sight.

Seshadri, K. G. (2016). The neuroendocrinology of love. Indian Journal of Endocrinology and Metabolism, 20(4), 558–563. doi:10.4103/2230-8210.183479

“What can develop is an intense attraction that involves an influx of hormones and neurochemical reactions that motivate us to seek closeness and intimacy with the object of our affection and attraction,” explains Kristen Roye, PsyD. “This response system can initially be triggered instantaneously and encourage us to explore a further relationship with this person that can certainly lead to love.”

Dr. Route explains that this immediate sense of attraction and connection to another ends up triggering a flurry of hormones, including feel-good hormones such as dopamine, norepinephrine, and cortisol. This creates a burst of positive feelings that can make someone feel as though they have “found the one.”

What Are the Signs of Love at First Sight?

When people experience what feels like love at first sight, or that initial intense attraction, they might have the following emotions, thoughts, or feelings:

• Physical attraction, which can include sexual attraction or feelings of lust and desire. In fact, several studies conclude that how attractive you find another person is a huge factor in whether you experience love at first sight or a desire to pursue partnership.2
• Having an instant connection that the other person may or may not feel.
• A feeling of euphoria or utter happiness, which is likely triggered by an influx of feel-good hormones such as dopamine and norepinephrine.
• Being emotionally or spiritually drawn to the other’s personality or characteristics
• Thinking about the other person often. Some studies even say the thinking can be “obsessive.” 
• Desiring to spend more time with the other person to get to know them better 
• Feeling like you’re “meant to be together” or are soul mates 

• Does Love at First Sight Last Forever?

• “The development of this type of relationship depends on so many complex factors, not limited to each partners’ openness to love and intimacy, each partner’s attachment style, communication style, and culture,” says Dr. Roye.

  Of course, those initial first feelings can sometimes develop into a deep and meaningful relationship like this. If that happens for you, you’ll feel an increased mood and sense of safety and commitment within the relationship. Like any relationship, it won’t be without hills and valleys, but generally you should feel like you’re a team working together toward a happy life.

  That said, it’s important to keep in mind that the “love at first sight” feelings and attraction doesn’t always develop into long-lasting love. So, even if you experienced those intense emotions and feel connected to the other person for that reason, that doesn’t mean that you should remain in the relationship if it isn’t working. 

  “In all honesty, those initial feelings that individuals describe during ‘love at first sight’ [often] fade with time, whereas true attachment—when engaged in a healthy relationship—will grow over the years,” Roye says.

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